Fishers girlfriend

No he much more Intrested in going fishing not even Intrested in girls he mind runs at 100mph feel like only option is to end things he just selfish when comes to fishing

😂😂😂 No not I Intrested in other people

Hi Mara,

You sound ever so isolated at the moment, I'm so sorry to read that you are really lonely and struggling.

It sounds like your partner has borrowed your car, which leaves you unable to take the children out and I am wondering whether he has permission to do this?

If you need your car during the weekend, do you feel able to tell him that?

You mentioned that your family are not close by, do you visit them often Mara?

Would living closer to them be good for you and the children?

You have bravely talked about your past relationship and the abuse that you experienced and it sounds like you are possibly noticing some red flags with this relationship. Could it be helpful to talk your thoughts and feelings through with Women's Aid so that you don't feel so alone?

Contact us - Women’s Aid (womensaid.org.uk)

Please do consider reaching out to them for some advice and support if you can.

Hopefully other members will be along soon to share their thoughts and advice with you here too.

Katie x

Yea il reach out

After going through bwisr I knkw what signs are and refuse put in that situation again he had abuse so we both won't put up with it but I feel trapped when he takes car were getting another car soon paid by me he has offered pay he good man I feel he take mick sometimes I've told him he not taking my car again for long period of time he took car 4pm till 12 am at night I worked hard for that car and after my ex what he done to me that's my pride and joy I like look after my things and it's mine never had nothing of mine before if I had emgerency il have wait for. Him rush home I think unfair and especially easter yesterday aswell I get he worked hard and needs he time but it's my car I told him get he own car then we won't have to row we never argue,

he took car cos I wasn't using it I was meant go be going away to my mums this weekend but I'm ill at min with infection I feel he took advantage of that he said this morning he won't stay with me if I say he can't go fishing but that's not case he can go everyday for all I care but don't take my car I won't be trapped and it's mine I have pay for maintance and I use for work as I'm self employed x

my sister met a man 6yrs ago she lives 2 hours away from him inly sees him 1 night every 2 weeks he comes down to see her she goes to him longer on odd occasions but been ill past 2 yrs got lots apmnts her end so stays close by to hospitals ect her partner goes fishing some times in weekday other times wknd over night wen he could be down hers seeing her for wknd but wint stay more than one night hes planned fishing trip in france with fishing friends goes for week each year but didnt go anywhere with her but past couple yrs ive arranged caravan holidays with her n her fella comes along he does that if theirs lakes n things he likes but apart from that shes totaly on her own no children but i see her every week or two so she knows how u feel hes missed lots of special days like easter wknd he did go to her one night only but dont see him valentines day n other special dates she gets down n depressed n very lonely too i will show her yr post as you and her are not alone i dont know what the answer to the fishing hobby is as they wont give it up shes been with him 6yrs but just puts up with it cos the rest time sees him he do anything for her n her chores as cant do much hersslf due to her ailments so she stays with him as says who else would put up with her health issues!!.. well im not sure wot to say bout that just hope you can talk to him about how lonely you feel especialy with hes kids you are meant to be a family unit doing things together but ive beenthere myself only my ex was drinker so was down pub everyday while i held the baby!.. finaly i cudnt take no more after 11yrs and split from him was best thing i done got a new life at nearly 50 met new man got engaged!..there is options out there but its tough on ppl with kids and finacial side but it is possible i was worse off as my ex drunk hes wages away so it worked out good for me new life out there to live you only het one gta make most of it hun good luck

Hi Denise THNAKS so much for yur reply I was married 12 years I was in domestic abusive marriage hit verbally physical and mentaly tortured I had courage to leave him then found he sexually abused my daughter and my disabled son in 2020 I met a man in 2021 he was a friend at first someone to open up to talk to he was there for me he treated me like never been treated before been with him 2 years he very respectfull we don't row we had 2 disagreements sorted it out we talk things through I did have argument today with him as he wanted go fishing again but take my car I said no I'm not being left with no car I have kid snot fair I'm trapped if I don't have car I have kids with special needs so public transport no go and I'm not well right now he been going every weekend and he away bank holiday in 2 weeks Saturday to Tuesday so spending bank holiday alone with kids men cna be so selfish he like u should hm get hobby if I did I reckon he be like leaving me agon yur never here when he got new job I sed I'm going out with me friends every Saturday bhe moaned cos I won't be her now he doing it to me I knkw what be like of we had child together he always be gone if she wants to contact me or have my number be nice to talk to someone in same boat and offer support and a friend x

hi im soo sorry to hear about yr ex abusing you and your kids that is awful i hope he got orosecuted for it they csn not get away with it i was with another alcoholic when divorces my husband yrs ago he was a loving kind oerson did anything for me but when he had a drink which was when he got hes benifits would drink the lot away be nasty to me verbaly and ut got physicaly too he would accuse me of fancying the barmen or whoever was around if we went out luckuly he didnt move in but he would keep knocking to come in when he was drunk i wouldnt let him in finaly i opened door to talk n he flew in a rage had a scuffle on the floor i dont know how i got away from him i ran into a neighbours with my clothes all torn in tears they called the police n arrested him but silly me dropped the charges cos i loved him🙄soo stupid i got an injunction to keep him away as he would keep banging at my door i was too weak to do it myself so had to get courts to serve papers on him but again i gave in mnths down the line hed be waiting on street corners knew places i went..he talked me round to giving him another chance n like a fool i believed him got bk with him but it went bk to square one all verbase n physical abuse i finished it once n for all..so i know how hard it is to get away from an abuser as they have 2 sides to them well my ex did but to abuse yr children there is no way id ever let him near them or you again you did well getting away from him n i suppose when you found this new kind man you thought you cant believe it that someone treat you with respect but now ges showing hes true colours with going fishing leaving you n the kids all the time when should be family time now wanting the car sounds very selfish to me esoecialy as you have a child with special needs too i will speak to my sister about your situation she may want your number as you both got similar partners hers is kind thoughtful and do anything for her but prefers fishing more to spending quality time with her luckily she has no kids by him she cant have children well shes 51 now so wont be having any as lot health problems and is stuck indoors alot waiting for her partner to come n visit for one nite every two weeks so she knows how lonely you feel x