Any advice!
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Last post: 14/04/2023 at 12:31 pm
Hi guys
i’m a single mum of 2 kids (3,7) - recently left long term partner of 10 years (last September) as he was unfaithful and generally treating me like crap. Fast forward to Jan and I’ve reunited with an old ‘friend’ we were super close when we were younger and have recently become infatuated with each other. He treats me so well and as we have such a solid friendship everything seems so easy. Fast forward to now and I’m pretty sure that I’m pregnant. We were being so careful (tracking ovulation, on pill etc) but now im
freaking out. We’ve only been dating for 4ish months and this seems so soon - we agreed to wait at least a year until he met my kids as we were enjoying being in our little bubble and wanted to make sure this was going to last before him meeting them. Now I’m in a state of shock - when do I tell the kids? I’m worried my ex and his family are going to be nasty, not to mention my own family who have no idea I’m seeing anyone… this pregnancy is going to come as a shocker. I haven’t even told the guy I’m dating… any advice? Obviously I’m going to tell him but I’ve literally just found out and panicking. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any advice would be so appreciated.
thankyou!
Have you even took a test have you had a positive test
If so it is what it is I got pregnant 5 months after meeting my partner I had a 4 year old but I was single for 3 years. And he had literally moved in a week after meeting lol.only because I was single so I always had my child as her dad never seen her. So there was no problems exs etc.
But if you are I'd prob slowly let him meet kids go on a nice day out each week
And announce at like 20 weeks
Your a grown women undont need worry about anyone opinion but u need make sure ur in a loving relationship for your child's sake and baby's sake so it's not confusing x
You need to find out before you freak out
You’ve just found out or you’re pretty sure you are pregnant? Which? You were on the pill and tracking ovulation? Huh 🫤