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Am I still attractive?

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Last post: 22/03/2023 at 11:06 am

LAURA R(61)
Laura R(61)
09/01/2023 at 2:41 pm

I've felt a little down about my body recently. I'm normally happy with the way I look, but after some nasty comments from the MIL about my weight and my breasts, etc. It's definitely gotten to me and it hurts, no matter how much I pretend it doesn't. My OH has spoken to her now, but it doesn't change anything.


I think I just need some positivity and reasurrance that I still look attractive and well...sexy.


I've taken a quick picture below, sorry about the mess in my bedroom


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LESLEY B(459)
Lesley B(459)
09/01/2023 at 9:08 pm

Hiya


Absolutely nothing wrong with the way you looking at all, if your partner is happy then do not need to worry about any negative comments from others

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LAURA R(61)
Laura R(61)
09/01/2023 at 9:55 pm
In answer to
Lesley B(459)

Hiya


Absolutely nothing wrong with the way you looking at all, if your partner is happy then do not need to worry about any negative comments from others

Thank you Lesley! Yes he's very happy, just sometimes people like her really get to you

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SHARON M(1383)
Sharon M(1383)
09/01/2023 at 11:09 pm
In answer to
Laura R(61)

Thank you Lesley! Yes he's very happy, just sometimes people like her really get to you

You look great .. embrace what you have. easy to say I know, but forget those people who are negative

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LAURA R(61)
Laura R(61)
09/01/2023 at 11:20 pm
In answer to
Sharon M(1383)

You look great .. embrace what you have. easy to say I know, but forget those people who are negative

Thanks Sharon, I sure am trying to, if you've got it you've gotta flaunt it haven't you!

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KAROLINA K(71)
Karolina K(71)
12/01/2023 at 8:15 pm

I'm also a curvy girl, and I'm not a big fan of my body (not as much as I used to) but if you're comfortable don't let any one put you down. They'll have something they don't like about themselves too. I'm in the process of loving myself again. Girl! You are stunning! Pretty fit too haha, all my love and respect yourself x

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CONRAD S
Conrad S
12/01/2023 at 10:18 pm
In answer to
Karolina K(71)

I'm also a curvy girl, and I'm not a big fan of my body (not as much as I used to) but if you're comfortable don't let any one put you down. They'll have something they don't like about themselves too. I'm in the process of loving myself again. Girl! You are stunning! Pretty fit too haha, all my love and respect yourself x

Hi Karolina,


I never quite worked out how to make curvy ladies a fan of their bodies as much as I am.


How can men help you love your body?


C.

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LAURA R(61)
Laura R(61)
15/01/2023 at 10:20 pm
In answer to
Karolina K(71)

I'm also a curvy girl, and I'm not a big fan of my body (not as much as I used to) but if you're comfortable don't let any one put you down. They'll have something they don't like about themselves too. I'm in the process of loving myself again. Girl! You are stunning! Pretty fit too haha, all my love and respect yourself x

Aw thanks Karolina, that's very sweet! Yeah I need to keep my confidence high and not listen to others x

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LAURA R(61)
Laura R(61)
15/01/2023 at 10:34 pm
In answer to
Conrad S

Hi Karolina,


I never quite worked out how to make curvy ladies a fan of their bodies as much as I am.


How can men help you love your body?


C.

I can't speak for everyone, but I do like to be told I look pretty and that I'm sexually attractive as it gives me a boost in confidence, especially when I'm feeling a little down about my appearance

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CONRAD S
Conrad S
16/01/2023 at 11:28 pm
In answer to
Laura R(61)

I can't speak for everyone, but I do like to be told I look pretty and that I'm sexually attractive as it gives me a boost in confidence, especially when I'm feeling a little down about my appearance

I'm happy to tell you that I'm sexually attracted by you -

Pretty lady!

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LAURA R(61)
Laura R(61)
16/01/2023 at 11:31 pm
In answer to
Conrad S

I'm happy to tell you that I'm sexually attracted by you -

Pretty lady!

Aw thanks!

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POPPY N(17)
Poppy N(17)
18/01/2023 at 5:15 pm

I'm not curvy I'm a twiglet with no boobs lol but WOW I'm telling u know I'd kill for u breasts and curves ur a stunning women and tell the mother in law that jealousy is very ugly!!!!

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DENISE C(356)
Denise C(356)
18/01/2023 at 5:33 pm
In answer to
Conrad S

I'm happy to tell you that I'm sexually attracted by you -

Pretty lady!

Most men enjoy curvy ladies I find 😉

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HANNAH MARIE H(2)
Hannah marie H(2)
18/01/2023 at 6:30 pm

I has a mother in law who used to fat shame me especially after having my 1st son !! Ignore her she's the one with the problem projecting her own thoughts on others !! Your beautiful were all different I'm a b cup and would love your boobs my backside is so wobbly but you know what they belong to me!! Own it throw a few digs back

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JESS F(81)
Jess F(81)
18/01/2023 at 9:14 pm

I often feel like this but try and remember that even those who you look at and think wow she's stunning, will probably think there's something they would change. Nobody's perfect and I'm being the biggest hypocrite by telling you to embrace what you have. If you're not happy then do something to change and if you are, finger up to those who put you down.

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